Good Morning Sunshine,
It’s been 7 months today. Sometimes it seems like yesterday. Sometimes it feels like forever.
You told me I could do this without you. You told me I’d be just fine. Your confidence drives me every day. When I don’t feel like waking up, when I feel like crying all day, when I can’t find the will to face the day, I remember that you knew I could do it. And so I do.
I push myself to not just live, but thrive again, because you would have wanted that for me, and you would have wanted me to want it.
Sometimes I feel like you’re sending signs. Signs letting me know it’s okay, and I’m doing the right thing.
I found someone. He is kind, and loving, and understanding. He makes me feel a kind of happiness I wasn’t sure I was capable of anymore. You would have liked him, but then again, if you were here to know him, I wouldn’t have had a reason to meet him.
It’s so weird because every part of me wants your opinion on things, but if I could get your opinion on the situation, that situation wouldn’t be an issue. So I settle for signs. Like when one of your favorite songs came on during a date.
It’s hard telling people I have found someone new. They think it’s too soon. They look at me like maybe I didn’t love you as much as they thought I did. God I love you. I never stopped. My heart aches still at the thought of holding your hand for the last time.
He isn’t a replacement. But I can’t get that across to people. You would have told me to not bother with anyone’s opinions.
I love you forever. Thank you for giving me the strength to thrive even when you are no longer here.